Pamela McNary

Pamela McNary, 78, of Rome City, Indiana went to be with the Lord on Saturday, August 15, 2026, at her residence, surrounded by her family.

She was born December 26, 1947, in Logansport, Indiana to Robert L. and Donna M. (Julian) Bernhardt.

On September 19, 1996, in Indianapolis, she married Steven M. McNary.

Mrs. McNary retired from The Salvation Army, where she served as an administrator. She had a compassionate heart and a genuine desire to help those who were hurting. During her years with The Salvation Army, working in drug and alcohol treatment, she became a “mother to many.” She offered encouragement, understanding, and love to people who needed someone to believe in them.

Pam’s faith in God was at the center of her life. She was a member of Five Corners Baptist Church in Wolcottville, where she found a church family and a place to worship and grow in her faith. Her relationship with the Lord shaped the way she loved and cared for others.

Pam also found great joy in the beauty of God’s creation. She loved flower gardening and took pride in watching her flowers bloom. She especially enjoyed hummingbirds and could spend time simply watching them visit her feeders. These quiet moments brought her happiness and were a beautiful reflection of her appreciation for the little blessings God placed around her.

Pam’s faith was more than something she talked about, it was something she lived. Her kindness, compassion, and willingness to care for others were a reflection of the love she had for God and for those around her. Her faith, her love, and the many lives she touched will be a lasting part of her legacy.

Surviving are her husband, Steve McNary of Rome City; three daughters, Cheryl (Mike) Muse of Vandalia, Ohio, Kimberly Kelly of Camby, Sandra (Daryl) Harden of Indianapolis; four sons, Brian (Christy Mattingly) Hickle of Greenwood, Donald McNary of Indianapolis, Steven McNary, II of Indianapolis, and Lamar McNary, Sr. of Indianapolis; 25 grandchildren, Chris (Mikaela) Bowman, Matt Bowman, Nick (Sarah) Muse, Ali (Todd) Reichard, Joshua Kelly, Amanda Kelly, Alec (Morgan Sears) Bryan, Payton (Jeremy) Knott, Kaylee (Brandon) Hargrove, Madison (Matt) Burns, Macenzie Hickle, Jake Hickle, Donald McNary, Sha’Nyla McNary, D’Marien McNary, Samara McNary, LaDon Jenison, Lamar McNary, Jr., Royal McNary, KingLamar McNary, Londynn MaNary, Lamyla McNary, Lai’Onna McNary, Jaion McNary, and Layla McNary; six great-grandchildren, Brooke, Carson, Jaxson, Kasen, Hudson, and Emily; and four siblings, Karen (Joe Rose) Ward of Logansport, Bob (Bonnie) Bernhardt of Logansport, Dennis (Toni) Bernhardt of Cartersville, Georgia, and Rick (Brenda) Bernhardt of Logansport.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

Visitation will be Saturday, August 22, 2026, from 2 p.m. to 3 p.m. at Five Corners Baptist Church, 2995 E 600 S, Wolcottville.

Pam’s celebration of life service will also be on Saturday at 3 p.m. at the church with Rev. Jim Snyder officiating.

Preferred memorials are to the family for expenses.

Young Family Funeral Home, Wolcottville Chapel, State Road 9 North, Wolcottville is assisting the family with arrangements.

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